Archive for the ‘Character’ Category

The First Female Millionaire

Sunday, July 1st, 2007

By Ronald Court

It’s fitting that my first entry in the “Opportunity” category would be about a first, the first female to become a self-made millionaire. She did it in the cosmetics business. I’m not talking about Mary Kay, though her story too is inspiring. This is about the first self-made female … black or white… to reach the millionaire milestone. She did it with integrity & character and against all odds.

Madam C. J. Walker
with thanks to author Brian Souza, for permission

“..I did not succeed by traversing a path strewn with roses. I made great sacrifices, met with rebuff after rebuff, and had to fight hard to put my ideas into effect.”

LIFE DIDN’T YIELD ITS JOYS EASILY TO MADAM C. J. WALKER.

Born to freed slaves and sharecroppers in rural Louisiana in 1867, she was orphaned by age ten. Illiterate, she was forced to start working six days a week picking cotton, cooking, and cleaning in white households. Married by fourteen, a mother at sixteen, and a widow by age twenty, life for Madam C. J. didn’t start out in a promising way. But despite adversity most of us will never know, she went on to become the first self-made female millionaire-white or black-in the United States.How? By taking an introspective look to discover who she really was and by deciding that she could-and would-transcend her roots to achieve her dreams. In short, by tapping into the very same powers that lie dormant within you right now.

For starters, after she was widowed, she took her daughter to St. Louis, Missouri, in search of education and a better way of life. At first being a washerwoman was tough going, but then Walker had a moment of self-revelation. As she later described it to The New York Times, she was a thirty-five-year-old single mother who “was at my tubs one morning with a heavy wash before me. As I bent over the washboard and looked at my arms buried in soapsuds, I said to myself, ‘What are you going to do when you grow old and your back gets stiff? Who is going to take care of your little girl?’ This set me to thinking, but with all my thinking I couldn’t see how I, a poor washer-woman, was going to better my condition.”

But she was committed. There was no turning back. Like all successful people, she took a chance and bet on herself. In 1905, with only $1.50 in savings, she moved to Denver, where she started a business making and selling a hair-straightening and beautifying product for African-American women. She eventually built a nationwide sales force numbering in the thousands. It wasn’t until she took a chance at she discovered her gift wasn’t doing the wash but the ability to spire women to take pride in themselves and to refuse to live with- the stereotypical confines of the times.

A century ago, few women-let alone African American women-traveled by themselves. But Madam C. J. crisscrossed the country almost continuously to spread the word about her products.

She first sold them door-to-door, then through the mail, and eventually in pharmacies. She was relentless in her marketing efforts. She stuck steadfastly to her goal-and never quit working on ways to improve her business. She realized that if she was going to make something of herself, she would have to develop her gift into some- thing of value. She had no formal education, but that didn’t stop her from hiring tutors to improve her vocabulary, teach her proper grammar, and broaden her horizons.

Similarly, she created jobs for thousands of black saleswomen, not only paying them well, but also setting up philanthropies and foundations to help educate them. In short, she built and ran a national cosmetics empire based on the highest principles-a feat that would have seemed remote when she was a shoeless orphan chopping cotton in Louisiana.

Her journey from poverty to wealth, from obscurity to fame, and from having the most menial of jobs to being a leader for women’s rights and economic freedom was remarkable to say the least.

Perseverance is my motto,” she told one interviewer. “It laid the Atlantic cable, it gave us the telegraph, telephone, and wireless. It gave to the world an Abraham Lincoln and to the race, freedom.” In her determination to live her dream, she defied long odds. And by the time of her death in 1919, she had become, as her biographer Beverly Lowry noted, “an icon, a legend, and an exemplar.”

What Matters

Saturday, May 5th, 2007

By Ronald Court

The following ode, “What Will Matter,” was recently emailed to me by a friend. Michael Josephson (Josephson Institute of Ethics) says it all so clearly in words I have been struggling to express.
What will Matter
by Michael Josephson

Ready or not, some day it will all come to an end.
There will be no more sunrises, no minutes hours or days.
All the things you collected, whether treasured or forgotten, will pass to someone else.
Your wealth, fame, and temporal power will shrivel to irrelevance.
It will not matter what you owned or what you were owed.
Your grudges, resentments, frustrations and jealousies will finally disappear.
So too, your hopes, ambitions, plans and to-do lists will expire.
The wins and losses that once seemed so important will fade away.
It won’t matter where you came from or what side of the tracks you lived on at the end.
It won’t matter whether you were beautiful or brilliant.
Even your gender and skin color will be irrelevant.

So what will matter?
How will the value of your days be measured?

What will matter is not what you bought but what you built…
not what you got but what you gave.
What will matter is not your success but your significance.
What will matter is not what you learned but what you taught.
What will matter is every act of integrity, compassion, courage or sacrifice that enriched.
Empowered or encouraged others to emulate your example.

What will matter is not your competence but your character.
What will matter is not how many people you knew, But how many will feel a lasting loss when you’re gone.
What will matter is not your memories but the memories of those who loved you.
What will matter is how long you will be remembered, by whom and for what.

Living a life that matters doesn’t happen by accident.
It’s not a matter of circumstances but of choice.
Choose to live a life that matters.

Copyright 2003 Michael Josephson
Josephson Institute of Ethics

Character & Integrity

Wednesday, March 28th, 2007

By Ronald Court

If we want to help students develop character and become leaders of integrity, we better be clear about what that really means. Or we risk seeking objectives as vague as that judge’s description of pornography: “I can’t describe it, but I know it when I see it.”

We need good working definitions for “character” and “integrity.” After googling around a bit, here’s my take:

It takes character to do the right thing. … and
It takes integrity to do the right thing all the time.

…Even when it hurts.

Persons of integrity live by a code of moral values—and sticks to it. It doesn’t have to be complicated. The civic organization, Rotary, has a simple “4-Way Test” of all the things they think, say or do:

1. Is it the TRUTH?

2. Is it FAIR to all concerned?

3. Will it build GOODWILL and better friendships?

4. Will it be BENEFICIAL to all concerned?”

Easy to say. Hard to do.
—-But the payoff is a life lived on purpose and with direction!

“Integrity without knowledge is weak and useless, and knowledge without integrity is dangerous and dreadful.”– Samuel Johnson

Booker T. knew that. And now, so do you.

About CharacterPower

Sunday, February 25th, 2007

By Ronald Court

“Character is power. If you want to be powerful in the world, if you want to be strong, influential and useful, you can be so in no better way than by having a strong character.” Booker T. Washington

The more I read and study Booker T. Washington, the more I realize what a giant of a man he was. Better than others of his day, he understood that freedom means only being free to choose. It isn’t enough, for one is always free to choose wisely… or poorly. The real question is how to make good choices. Booker T. saw that persons of good character choose wisely to their own — and society’s — benefit more often. So being of good character is the key to making freedom worthwhile.

The motto of the Booker T. Washington Society is, “I CHOOSE.” Each letter stands for a value of character that Booker T. understood as a key element to developing what we call…

cp-motto

If you would like this in a laminated card for your wallet, simply e-mail me with your postal address. We’ll send one right out.All the Best, Ron Court

Welcome

Saturday, January 27th, 2007

By Ronald Court

We coined the term “CharacterPower” to highlight the BTW Society’s primary purpose in bringing the teachings of a great American, Booker T. Washington to today’s youths. Our purpose is not simply to discuss Dr. Washington’s philosophy and host intellectual “symposia” or present papers on his life and legacy. Those efforts better suit the think-tanks and scholars who have kept the flame of Booker T. Washington’s legacy alive. To them, we owe a deep sense of gratitude.

However, the BTW Society is a DO-tank, committed to developing students and leaders of good character and integrity.

Booker T. dedicated his too-brief life to DOING as much as thinking. And so shall we. BTW had little use for those who mired themselves in dwelling on past injustices. For him, there was too much to do, going forward. And so shall we. He believed strongly in a practical education. And so do we. He believed that to achieve a productive, constructive life, one needed to focus as much on character-building as on book-learning. And so do we.

BTW cultivated the whole person by giving weekly talks to students at Tuskegee on topics such as Character, Integrity, Honesty, hard work, service to others and yes, forgiveness. Booker T envisioned a future in which individual effort and an ability…and responsibility…to contribute to society leads to success.

Unfortunately, American culture today seems less interested in cultivating these qualities than in valuing ‘Success,’ as defined by conspicuous consumption, wealth, instant gratification and acquiring self-esteem with effort. Booker T showed the way to a better society. Help us DO things that would make Dr. Washington proud.