The Day I met Booker T.

June 29th, 2007

By Ronald Court

OK. Not the Booker T., but Booker T., just the same. And maybe, because I happened to meet this Booker T., maybe that’s why I clicked a link to a page about the Booker T. a couple of years ago. That random act of curiosity was the seed that gave birth to the Booker T. Washington Society, scholarships for students of character and mentoring plans for students to help them develop into leaders of integrity.

I was 20 (Summer of ’62), and winding up a year of putting myself through school at Boston University, taking courses at night and working days. BU had accepted me full-time for the Fall, so, if I were ever to fulfill my boyhood dream of hitchhiking coast-to-coast around the country, this was the time.

It turned out to be about the most life-altering experiences of my life. I may talk about them later, but on to Booker T.

It was Sunday morning in Lexington, KY. I had already hitched from Boston to San Francisco, camped out in Yosemite, saw the Grand Canyon, dug Dixieland Jazz in New Orleans, and sweltered in Atlanta. I wanted to see “blue grass” and thoroughbred horses. I had been dropped off on a road to Calumet Farms, the only horse farm I had heard of.

A car approached. I stuck out my thumb and held up my makeshift shirtback cardboard sign, “PLEASE.” It worked. A mother and her daughter, obviously dressed as though coming from church, pulled over. As we talked and rode, she told me that horse farms were closed on Sundays, but if I had the time, perhaps I would join her and her daughter for lunch at their home, “and afterwords, maybe we can find a way to show you some horses.”

Sure enough, after a lunch salad made with with the biggest, tastiest tomato slices I had ever eaten, she and her daughter took me to Spendthrift Farm, right up to the picture-perfect stables and introduced me to the gentleman waiting for us as “Booker T.” She asked him to bring out his favorite horse so that I could snap a picture.

He returned with a magnificient creature and, as I positioned myself to snap the pic, he said simply, “OK, Jet. Pose.”

With that, Jet Pilot, winner of the 1947 Kentucky Derby, snapped his ears forward and gave me the shot and a thrill of a lifetime.

The more I learn about the Booker T. and of others named for him, I wonder how many are out there. If you are, or know of someone named Booker T. (in addition to Booker T. Jones, of “Booker T. & the MG’s” fame) , I’d especially like to hear from you.

feedback

May 12th, 2007

We’re back from Celebrate BTW ’07, the BTW Society’s annual celebrate/conference/workshop experience for BTW Ambassador Scholars, parents and mentors. Here’s what they had to say.
(The complete responses are posted here.)

…This trip has taught me things about BTW I didn’t know….

… It made me think a lot about my life and parents and what I should do from here. This experience made me realize that I have so many opportunities out there and all I have to do is try. Even if it doesn’t turn out the way I want it to, I should still give it a shot.

… I feel like this is also a sign from God when I came here…

…We really connected like a family for this couple of days…

…it helped me think about ways that I can help myself be successful, that I have been trying to find answers to…

…Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

…I will use my $1,000 scholarship to put towards books in college…

Thank you …and all the guest speakers for this experience and education on Booker T. Washington. I have been truly motivated and inspired to continue to educate myself on this fine American….

What Matters

May 5th, 2007

By Ronald Court

The following ode, “What Will Matter,” was recently emailed to me by a friend. Michael Josephson (Josephson Institute of Ethics) says it all so clearly in words I have been struggling to express.
What will Matter
by Michael Josephson

Ready or not, some day it will all come to an end.
There will be no more sunrises, no minutes hours or days.
All the things you collected, whether treasured or forgotten, will pass to someone else.
Your wealth, fame, and temporal power will shrivel to irrelevance.
It will not matter what you owned or what you were owed.
Your grudges, resentments, frustrations and jealousies will finally disappear.
So too, your hopes, ambitions, plans and to-do lists will expire.
The wins and losses that once seemed so important will fade away.
It won’t matter where you came from or what side of the tracks you lived on at the end.
It won’t matter whether you were beautiful or brilliant.
Even your gender and skin color will be irrelevant.

So what will matter?
How will the value of your days be measured?

What will matter is not what you bought but what you built…
not what you got but what you gave.
What will matter is not your success but your significance.
What will matter is not what you learned but what you taught.
What will matter is every act of integrity, compassion, courage or sacrifice that enriched.
Empowered or encouraged others to emulate your example.

What will matter is not your competence but your character.
What will matter is not how many people you knew, But how many will feel a lasting loss when you’re gone.
What will matter is not your memories but the memories of those who loved you.
What will matter is how long you will be remembered, by whom and for what.

Living a life that matters doesn’t happen by accident.
It’s not a matter of circumstances but of choice.
Choose to live a life that matters.

Copyright 2003 Michael Josephson
Josephson Institute of Ethics

Character & Integrity

March 28th, 2007

By Ronald Court

If we want to help students develop character and become leaders of integrity, we better be clear about what that really means. Or we risk seeking objectives as vague as that judge’s description of pornography: “I can’t describe it, but I know it when I see it.”

We need good working definitions for “character” and “integrity.” After googling around a bit, here’s my take:

It takes character to do the right thing. … and
It takes integrity to do the right thing all the time.

…Even when it hurts.

Persons of integrity live by a code of moral values—and sticks to it. It doesn’t have to be complicated. The civic organization, Rotary, has a simple “4-Way Test” of all the things they think, say or do:

1. Is it the TRUTH?

2. Is it FAIR to all concerned?

3. Will it build GOODWILL and better friendships?

4. Will it be BENEFICIAL to all concerned?”

Easy to say. Hard to do.
—-But the payoff is a life lived on purpose and with direction!

“Integrity without knowledge is weak and useless, and knowledge without integrity is dangerous and dreadful.”– Samuel Johnson

Booker T. knew that. And now, so do you.

About CharacterPower

February 25th, 2007

By Ronald Court

“Character is power. If you want to be powerful in the world, if you want to be strong, influential and useful, you can be so in no better way than by having a strong character.” Booker T. Washington

The more I read and study Booker T. Washington, the more I realize what a giant of a man he was. Better than others of his day, he understood that freedom means only being free to choose. It isn’t enough, for one is always free to choose wisely… or poorly. The real question is how to make good choices. Booker T. saw that persons of good character choose wisely to their own — and society’s — benefit more often. So being of good character is the key to making freedom worthwhile.

The motto of the Booker T. Washington Society is, “I CHOOSE.” Each letter stands for a value of character that Booker T. understood as a key element to developing what we call…

cp-motto

If you would like this in a laminated card for your wallet, simply e-mail me with your postal address. We’ll send one right out.All the Best, Ron Court

Welcome

January 27th, 2007

By Ronald Court

We coined the term “CharacterPower” to highlight the BTW Society’s primary purpose in bringing the teachings of a great American, Booker T. Washington to today’s youths. Our purpose is not simply to discuss Dr. Washington’s philosophy and host intellectual “symposia” or present papers on his life and legacy. Those efforts better suit the think-tanks and scholars who have kept the flame of Booker T. Washington’s legacy alive. To them, we owe a deep sense of gratitude.

However, the BTW Society is a DO-tank, committed to developing students and leaders of good character and integrity.

Booker T. dedicated his too-brief life to DOING as much as thinking. And so shall we. BTW had little use for those who mired themselves in dwelling on past injustices. For him, there was too much to do, going forward. And so shall we. He believed strongly in a practical education. And so do we. He believed that to achieve a productive, constructive life, one needed to focus as much on character-building as on book-learning. And so do we.

BTW cultivated the whole person by giving weekly talks to students at Tuskegee on topics such as Character, Integrity, Honesty, hard work, service to others and yes, forgiveness. Booker T envisioned a future in which individual effort and an ability…and responsibility…to contribute to society leads to success.

Unfortunately, American culture today seems less interested in cultivating these qualities than in valuing ‘Success,’ as defined by conspicuous consumption, wealth, instant gratification and acquiring self-esteem with effort. Booker T showed the way to a better society. Help us DO things that would make Dr. Washington proud.